Feelings, thoughts and some questions !

Relationship ! A relationship with a person has changed me completely. The time we were together, the time we are spending away from each other. To tell yourself that it is all over sounds simple and was easy at the first go. Takes you a few days and you re back to normal, its only at the later stage when you bump into the person or hear or talk about her that you realise that it hasn't gone. the feling still exists and no matter how hard you try you just cannot forget the person. So how do others say that they have moved on. How is it possible ?
The time you have spent cannot be forgotten, the memories you share, can you just let it go? Is it possible for an individual to have control over one's feelings for a person? Can you after sometime have absolutely no feelings for the person ? How does it feel to know that what you had with that special person is all gone and is over now, you need to forget it all and may be hope to live your life with someone else and also be true to that person. Love someone else !!!!!!!
I certainly believe that you can love only one person in your life and that is the one whom you spend your life with. How can you even think of having relationships which have no meaning and you are on a trial basis and you are just seeing if it works out or not !!!
This theory really baffles me, how do you say that after a break up that it did not work out. God damn, make it work. You love the person and hence you are together and now how the hell do you say that you are leaving her ! Weird things happen in this world, people have their own thoughts and beliefs and we do is argue and ponder what if ! We do not live in an ideal world and not all that happens is good. At this moment of time what you see is a confused state of mind. A mind that is not thinking straight, a mind that is not talking and making sense !
A few more topics to write about. Guess have an opinion on a lot of topics and shall share it with you guys soon !